What do you guys think?

Well, I just scheduled a consult with our IVF doctor. Liam is only 9
months old but I am 41 and do not want to wait.
My dh is not sure we can afford another round of IVF, last time it
cost us around $50,000 total for both cycles.
We do not have any frozen.
Part of me does not want to get my hopes up in case we cannot afford
it.
Do you think its too soon?
Would you have the consult to get the information?
Should I not be talking about this on this forum? Should it be the
secondary forum?
I would love some advice and sup****t with this.
Thanks Ladies!

I really feel like our family is amazing but not quite complete.

Christy