"-L." <gentleboa@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote
> I think that's a great place to start, Kelly! "What if" may turn into
> "never" or it may turn into a baby! You just never know until you
> explore it further. And I *so* relate to not knowing if or when it
> might be a good time. Is there ever a good time to add another child
> to the family? At least we have the adoption option, and for that I am
> thankful! I, too, have so many "what ifs" floating around in my head.
> I really want J to have a sib - but I'm just not sure I am strong
> enough to do it again. And the clock ticks on....
>
After things settle down (in the middle of the move from hell), I will
talk
to DH about it, at least to see where he is. He's been reminicing about
the
girls being newborns, so I'm not sure if that's a sign that he would like
another or not.
I know, every scenario of when to have another has its drawbacks. If I
wait
too long, I feel like there will be too big of an age gap, and I'll be
back
into having more of an adult life (job possibly, etc) that I won't want to
interrupt that again. OTOH, if they are close in age, then things will be
total chaos.
> One good thing about adoption is you don't have the exhaustion of
> pregnancy and birth to deal with. The babies come pre-packaged in
> Carter's and that's an awesome benefit! ;)
Very true! I have also been thinking about an older infant/young toddler.
>
> No way! I will sneak over to a.i.parenting and see if I can find a
> link to pics. :)
>
It's http://snittens.shutterfly.com
I'm pretty sure I have some pics of
them in the Beetle t-****rts.
-Kelly
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