I just popped in here to lurk. Hope it's OK/appropriate that I post. If
not, I apologize.
My twins (via IVF) are almost 11 months old. We were fairly serious about
adoption, working our way through the application packet, when we decided
to
pursue IVF. I still feel called (I guess that would be the right word) to
adoption. DH and I have spoken hypothetically about having another child,
as an "if", not a "when" at this point. I am still undecided myself, but
am
leaning towards wanting another at some point, and definitely adopting.
For
a number of reasons, I do not wish to go through IVF again. I am also
thinking about when would be a good time, as far as the ages of my girls
and
what may be going on in my life. Part of me can't even imagine going
through another newborn stage, I feel like I am just now recovering from
that. But I also would like to experience a singleton newborn to see what
"normal" (if there is any!) is like. Another part of me thinks I am crazy
and why in the world would I even be contemplating another child? DH and
I
haven't really talked about this yet, we have a lot going on at the
moment.
So, this is all really just "what ifs" in my head.
Anyway, nice to see you Lyn! The girls are big enough to wear the ****rts
you sent when they were born now. :) They look really cute in them.
-Kelly
"-L." <gentleboa@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
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> <echos>
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> Anybody lurking?
>
> Anyone thinking of adopting or in the process?
>
> Any of you oldtimers thinking about #2 or #3?
>
> Annie? Christy? Carola? Stella? Felice? Joni? Anybody...? I'd
> love to hear from you guys if you are lurking about!
>
>
> -L.
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