Re: What is the first step in adoption?

Munchkin wrote:
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> > Munchkin wrote:
> >> <Meagan787@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
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> >> > FlowerGal74 wrote:
> >> >> My dh and I are seeing an RE right now, and we dont even know what
a
> >> >> course of treatment/action will be yet.  We've thought about
adoption,
> >> >> but I kind of want it to be our last step.  Know what I mean?>
> >> >
> >> >
> >> >
> >> > You are every first mother's worst nightmare.
> >> >
> >> >
> >> >
> >> >
> >> >  Im just
> >> >> curious about how you found an agency.  Did you look it up on the
> >> >> internet?  I want to be very informed, on all of our decisions we
will
> >> >> have to make.  If treatment doesnt work for us,  and Im hoping
thats a
> >> >> very big IF, we dont want to take this lightly
> >> >
> >> > What an understatement; taking it lightly.
> >> >
> >> > Kathy
> >> > First Mom
> >> >
> >> >
> >>
> >>
> >> ((((((((((((((((((Kathy))))))))))))))))))
> >>
> >> Hugs, Sweetie.  You are such a brave and courageous woman.  I am
sorry
> >> you
> >> took offence to Vicki's post, I do not think she intended to offend,
she
> >> just maybe worded things wrong.  Bless you, Dear, and take good care
of
> >> yourself.
> >>
> >> ~C
> >>
> >
> > I'm not offended in the least.  And please don't patronize me.  You
> > haven't a clue as to what I am.  Your hugs are not necessary.
> >
> > It is bothersome when I see someone so DESPERATE for a bio baby of
> > their own, and think of adoption as the last resort.  And Vicki's post
> > does set off red flags.
> >
> > Kathy
> > first mom
> >
>
>
> Kathy, no one is patronizing you.  Maybe you need to seek some
counseling.>

LMAO!

> You come across as very angry towards anyone on the other end of
adoption. >

How pathetic.  LOL!


> Most adoption agencies out there will give you free counseling if you
cannot
> afford it.  I am sure that talking about your issues with being a birth
mom
> will help you to heal.  Its not adoptive parents faults, or anyone
elses,
> that you chose to place a child.  That was your decision, and one that
you
> need to deal with and live with.  You seem to be harbouring way too much
> anger.  Neither Vicki or anyone else here did you any wrong.>


Hahahahahaha.   Honestly, you haven't a clue what I am feeling, but
continue on with your
typical blathering.


>
> When someone like Vicki asks questions, she is sincere.  Would you
rather
> she lie?


No, I'd rather she be honest, and stop thinking she is entitled to
parent and work on her fertility issues before she adopts.  Would you
rather I sugar coat the reasons why I feel this way.


 The reality is, every adoptive parent who has suffered infertility
> is desperate for a bio baby.

Then, get a puppy.
And how dare you speak for ALL adoptive parents.  Many do not feel as
you do.

 For many, adoption is their last resort.  It
> was not mine, but that is just my scenario, not someone else's.
>
> Just for the record, my child is adopted, and he is my own.
>
> ~C

Oh dear.

Kathy
First mom


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> >> >> Vicki
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